TFB Team,

I just wanted to share some comments with our story and experience with the first box. Please feel free to use this information - please just keep it anonymous if shared.

My wife and I got married back in April - and even before our marriage, our sex life had pretty much died off. We had sex on our wedding night and one other occasion on our honeymoon, but as much as I hate to say it, it wasn't that special or memorable. Since then our sex life has died off even more, to the point that before tonight we hadn't had sex in over two months, this in our mid-twenties and not even being married for 6 months.

I don't know if it was the sex life or lack there of, but lately we've also been arguing more, not communicating very well, and both of us have had conversations that we're scared our marriage may not last. Times really haven't been the best since our marriage.

This is where the fantasy box came in. We received our first box today, and were excited to see what it was all about. I had read up on it a lot, but left her in the dark other than briefly describing the concept and telling her I ordered one. We went out to dinner and talked over the questions from the survey. While we weren't totally surprised at any of our answers - it was very good to be talking about it and just talking in general.

Then we got home and got into the rest of the box. I played the role of the leader and she of the follower. The ideas that came from it let us find new things we both liked, explore a new side of sex we hadn't before, and for the first time as a married couple we had sex that was not just great for both of us, but will also be memorable I'm sure.

The debrief after was probably the first time that we've both been so open and honest in months, and one of the best conversations we've had in awhile. Rather than talking about what problem's we've had with each other it got us talking about what we liked about the other person, about what they did, and having a very great positive conversation.

It's very early to tell, but I honestly believe the fantasy box for us won't just be something to spice things up, but it very well could be a huge contributing factor to saving not just our sex life but also saving our marriage.

Thanks so much for your concept - and for giving us a safe environment to talk, try new things, and to remember what it was that made us want to spend our lives together.

-R