Valentines Day is so close to us it’s unreal. I have given a nice list of Valentine’s Day Gifts for Him  for you to gain some ideas on how to make your man happy this year. I’ve even provided gift ideas for her under $50.00. Now it’s time to give you an idea for BOTH of you. It’s time to turn your bedroom into a sexual fantasy room. Don’t go running off until you hear all the details.

The big hype for this year’s movie release is the Fifty Shades of Grey movie that is coming out on Valentine’s Day. I can see the appeal to be interested in both the book and possibly the movie. (Even though for the life of me I can’t figure out why they choose the characters they did unless those are the only two they could get willing to do it.) I’d much rather make those kinds of memories with my husband in the comfort of my home than watch someone else do them on the big screen.

Turn Your Bedroom Into Sexual Fantasy Room

The Tricky Stage

Many couples do not have the comfort zone with each other to talk about their fantasies. I know how hard it may be to express what you want to do with/without your spouse sexually. If you’re not willing to discuss those kinds of things with them, then there is no way for your spouse to fulfill your sexual desires for you.

Del and I have been very open about our sex life from day one with each other and you. I’m a big advocate for sex in marriage due to my own past.

It’s important to shake things up when it comes to the bedroom scene. It can’t always be the same thing. The longer you’re married the harder seems to be to get creative. Plus as you age, your thoughts and opinions on things concerning sex change.  I also do realize there is more to marriage than just sex. That’s why I love the Fantasy Box membership program.

Watch this quick video learn more about it:

In the Spirit of Fifty Shades of Grey

In the spirit of the Fifty Shades of Grey movie coming out, I was pleased to get the Leader/Follow type Fantasy box to review. This box kit came complete with questionnaires cards for Del and me to answer with each other. There were suggestions on how to make the night more enjoyable. There was an adorable piece of lingerie for me to wear that wasn’t over the top, but yet was nice. We also got some other goodies too. The blindfold truly enhanced our sexual experience.

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There is something to be said for allowing your spouse to have total freedom to use your body any way they choose without you having any idea what they are going to do to you next. Throughout the Fifty Shades of Grey book (I only read part of the first one because I have read/written a far better one), there was the general theme of him having power over her and her being this innocent submissive.

Turn Your Bedroom Into Sexual Fantasy Room

I have tried many times over to be a 100% submissive for Del, but that will NEVER be in my nature completely again. However, he does know that if he pushed the right buttons he could have that complete control over me. Yet, he understands me and knows me well enough to not go too far. That’s what leads to a wonderful and fulfilling sex life is when you know you can trust your spouse to not make you uncomfortable even when you give him the power to do it. There are times when you want to have those buttons pushed. You want to explore and see just what it feels like to have something new done to you.

Invest in YOUR Sex Life

The Fantasy Box gives couples the freedom to feel comfortable to go outside the norm. If you invest in spending money on your sex life in your marriage, then you are more inclined to use those products. I’m not saying that the products alone are the cure all, but they are a starting point. They are a way to get you both talking and growing in your comfort levels together. It’s easy to do it when you’re a teenager and don’t have anything else to worry about. It’s hard though to hit those hardcore topics when you have kids, bills, and everyday life events to worry about.

This Valentine’s Day and every day beyond that, I encourage you to work with your spouse in creating a sex life that will leave you both comfortable and fulfilled. Not to mention, begging for more. Make memories together that will last a lifetime. Enjoy the moments you have together.

Have you lived out your own fantasy with your spouse?

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Turn Your Bedroom Into A Sexual Fantasy Room

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